Hive Open Mic 🎤 week 171 || "Out of love" ~ Cover song by Princessbusayo.

Good morning and happy weekend to everyone in the community. This is Princessbusayo and I am presenting an entry to the week's theme titled "Divorce/Separation" which is for week 171. In my video, I did a cover song of "Out of Love" by Alessia Cara. It's fun doing this again and I am grateful for the support of the team and everyone who has been listening to what I have always been putting up on the blockchain.

How does this song relate to the theme?

Sometimes, I wonder how partners tend to stop loving themselves again. The love dissolves into thin air all of a sudden and it makes me question: what has happened? Where have all the vows and promises gone? What had destroyed the fun moments? When an individual sees two people who are in love, he or she would want to pray for such kind of love because of how they act, connect and cherish each other. You wonder and imagine a perfect love like that, but all of a sudden, that once upon love tale has disappeared. All that remains is irritation and hatred which at the end of the day result in divorce or separation.

Alessia had such an experience too. The first lyrics in her song explain how she missed her ex and wanted him to return but there was nothing she could do to bring him back. All she now wanted is an answer to her question that says "When did he stop loving her?" "At what point did he stop caring for her again". You know, this is what most people want as they aren't even doing anything to bring them back again because no matter what they do or how hard they try, things still wouldn't be like they used to be. But they want an answer — what changed? Why did you stop showing you care? That's all I want to know!

Divorce or separation is always hard especially when it does not favor one person. He or she would try to decipher what has gone wrong in the relationship. What makes the other person change suddenly? They never wanted a separation but the deed has been done; the one who initiated it has made the decision and not coming back and in most situation, it's always hard to decide leaving. This affects the victim which may result in different questions about how things have happened and took such an unexpected turn.

I think what made two people connected in the first place should continue to blossom and there shouldn't be any change in the future that could cause a divorce or separation, I don't want to experience this because this stage is an unbearable one for the victim affected most. Divorce is painful and I don't think I would want such. Even if there would be any separation, let it be during my relationship before marriage as I would want to live with my partner forever, with us training our kids in the best way.

But really, have you tried asking such a question when you had a separation where you aren't the cause? When did you fall out of love with me?

Thanks for your time on my blog.