Why Does Love Fade With Time?

@dayotemi: The worst form of mind trick is infatuation. It's so bad that you'd be so convinced that you've seen the one for you because you'd fantasize the person to be flawless, this is where the problem begins I agree that True love can never fade because it is created on understanding and tolerance. What lacks in most relationship is communication and activities that will reignite the initial excitement that was felt when it just began.

@wummi: You're right. Love is built on effective communication and understanding. What some people call love at first sight is actually attraction at first sight and infatuation.

@beautifullyyou: True love doesn't fade but then when they both get too busy they start thinking the other person doesn't love them again, then they start getting this idea of let's go our seperate ways. Love needs to be fueled though

@heyliejar: To me I believe any love that fades with time wasnt love in the first place or wasn’t built on the right foundation. Love is something that’s meant to last forever irrespective of the odds and pains in it

@immaculate08: Community is the bedrock of any relationship

@doforlove: I think it depends on whatsoever the love is built on at the initial stage, some tends to love their partner cos of material things, and when it's not longer available they get tired of such relationship.

@chrinnox: People tend to mistake infatuation, lust and attraction for love. Aside from this fact, love is never enough in a relation/ marriage has it needs other factors to grow, such as communication, attention, understanding your partner, etc. When love stands alone in a relationship (i.e. when love is all that is offered in a relationship) it begins to grow weak and eventually fade out. Love's sustainability lies in the hands of both parties.

@buzzalvin: If it fades then maybe it's infatuation. Though, you might not enjoy the privilege of missing each other if you're married or if you're staying together. But, doing some fun things you once did when you met first, it might ignite the feeling again.

@vincecharlie: Allow me to throw a controversial statement, and digress a little here. I believe what is once conceived, especially in matters of the heart, can go on to last a lifetime. It's simple yet so amazingly misunderstood. No? Nobody believes in love at first sight, so they label it infatuation, thereby, making it to be a form of a prerequisite to the real thing Love. I believe as much as we try to subdue the possibility of falling in love at a sight, we thereby frustrate the meaningness to what it truly is. Having said that, does Love fade over time? It absolutely does not.

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