▶️ Watch on 3Speak --- --- ENGLISH I always find it weird that once you're approaching a certain age in my society today, people especially friends and family begin questioning why you're not in a ...
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@chrinnox: To be honest, we shouldn't enforce people into a relationship or marriage but should be a voluntary decision. A lot of relationships fail because the parties involved don't even love each other but are only trying to please their parents, friends and society.
@wummi: Really people should not be forced into a relationship. A lot of people end up in the hands of wrong partners because they've been pressurized by people around them to be in a relationship, even when they have not seen someone they are really interested in.
@dayotemi: Forcing people into marriage without them having any true feelings for themselves is like wishing for a toxic marriage. Parents and guardians should let go of their selfish ambitions and think about their children's emotions.
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@immaculate08: It's true that people shouldn't be forced but also, the forcing of a thing matters at some certain age especially in this side of the world, our culture is wired that way
@hive-elite: This is common in our region today, we just have to get by it every day and accept. Some people believe that if your friends are in a relationship and you are not, it means you're not up to the level and they want to put pressure on you. Meanwhile your focus is on something else
@buzzalvin: I can't blame anyone because it's way it has always been for a long time and we don't like and don't change much. African parents wants to have a grandchildren or something that's one of the joy they can derive from growing old
@doforlove: Peer pressure is the major reason people often leave their goals behind and begin to chase after things that can wait till some other time in the future. Much worse than peer pressure is parents comparing their children with other children in a bid to push them into relationships/marriages which they are not ready for.
@vincecharlie: I've had my fair share of pressure in the matters of relationships. It's weird that people think you odd anytime you mention not being in a relationship. Like why don't they just let me be.