@uchelee: I know I'm leaving. That's what I'd do. But humour me,what would you say to people who say, "men are polygamous in nature, if they cheat, it doesn't mean they don't love you, yada yada"?
Can you take back a cheating partner? by @uchihanagato on 3Speak
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@uchelee: I know I'm leaving. That's what I'd do. But humour me,what would you say to people who say, "men are polygamous in nature, if they cheat, it doesn't mean they don't love you, yada yada"?
@beautifullyyou: Hmmm, it is easier for men to say this I cannot take her back our society has made it look like when a woman cheat the act is unforgivable but when it is the man fight for your relationship or home is what we hear . For me I will say love forgives but my advice to people has always been don't marry a cheating partner, he is she won't change, but if it happens after marriage you can't just walk out of your marriage that's why I say think am well oo
@doforlove: As for me I can take back a cheating partner, it might be a mistake and if she promise not to that anymore.
@wummi: I wouldn't consider taking a cheating partner back, because I believe such partner doesn't love me and can never change. Calling cheating a mistake is just so funny, because it can never be a mistake.
@dayotemi: I don't think cheating should be considered a mistake, It was done purely by their own free will. I don't think I would want to get back with such a person.
@buzzalvin: I can and i cannot. Depending on the level of how serious the cheating is and how far it has gotten to. If there's a sign of remorse and it's not intimate, and depending on my own circumstance i might. But, if it's so serious even God can't beg on her behalf.
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@vincecharlie: Maybe. Maybe not. However, I must agree with you when you said "cheating is a deliberate action which requires pre planning before execution." Having said that, it yet depends on whatever it is that led the cheater to the act. Most of the time, we focus so much on the latter without having to look at how things were between both parties in the relationship/marriage. I don't wanna make this too long, but if the circumstances that led to the cheating partner were say, the fault of one the party or otherwise then maybe looking at it delicately would allow us decide. Which is why I said "Maybe, Maybe not." It depends!
@chrinnox: As much I don't encourage or agree with being with cheating partner, I believe in giving people a second chance if they feel remorseful. There is surely no third chance. Another thing I would say is that cheating is one of those red flags in a relationship and can lead to depression for the other partner or something worst.
@heyliejar: As for me! I got a lot of trust issues. So as soon as I realize my partner cheated or is cheating on me, that really marks the beginning of the end for us.
@loyalhusband: “Unfortunately, cheating is not one of such mistakes. Considering cheating a mistake would be very poor 'choice of words' because cheating is a very deliberate action. It is an action that requires pre planning before execution hence it will be a mistake to say that your partner really feels sorry when caught in the act of cheating.“ Perfectly said. You nailed it bro.😎 Just a suggestion, while letting go and move on is a good thing, it’s best also to do self reflection about what happen because relationship will only work when there is give and take. Working together is a must when building relationships. It takes effort, resources, time, learnings, etc. Remember that it’s easy to destroy than build. And unfortunately our default is always going to destruction.