Officially Leaving the UK by @englishmigrant on 3Speak
▶️ Watch on 3Speak --- Look, I love it here in Bali, I really do. It’s paradise. But there’s a massive problem no one talks about—and it’s the locals burning plastic. It’s just "normal" to them, bu...
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Oh, slowing down, letting go. There's definitely a big shift occurring, trying to find the best background. Oh, there's so much, there's so much I could show you, and I'll try in the background of this video. Um, yeah, so, it's about two in the afternoon, I think, and it's the first time I've left my apartment today. And obviously I can notice a part of myself that's like, you're in Bali, there's so much to do, there's so much to see, why are you spending your whole time in Uber? Why aren't you travelling the island and seeing it all? And then even accepting that I am staying in Uber. Not accepting, it's a huge joy, pleasure and honour, and it's basically because of the boxing gym. And also, travelling is exhausting, and I'm... I did so much travelling through South America, but I'm so happy to just stay in one place for a while. But yeah, even within Uber, there's so much to do and so much to see, and it's like, why are you just spending most of your days in your hotel room? We'll go somewhere a bit quieter. Ah, nah, fuck it. You know, when there's so much to see and do, and I can notice that part of myself. But there's so much more for me, we'll go down here, this is the beautiful, in just learning to be, and stopping doing, I've spent my whole life doing, I spent my whole life trying to accumulate, trying to grow, and this stagnantation I'm experiencing with YouTube at the moment. Just feels like a beautiful opportunity. To, there's a big bed there, look, four -post of bed. To lean, oh my God, where am I? I might as well as that. To lean into that more and more. I think I might turn the camera around for you guys. Ah, and just getting done, you know, the little jobs that I need to do and to be satisfied with that. So, for example, today I finally filled out. the P85 form, which is the form you have to fill out to tell the UK, I no longer live there, and I'm no longer part of your system. And that just feels great. I've actually been trying to do it for a couple of weeks, but they kept asking questions about my self-assessment and my m -mm-mm-mm-s, then I had to contact my accountant, then I'd lose my motivation for a little while. Anyway, today it's done, so I just need to wait for them to confirm. But yeah, obviously they don't, they don't just tell you like, oh yeah, you're three now, but you know, basically by their answer you can work out if you are three. And I will be because I own nothing in the UK. I don't work in the UK. Wow, look at this paradise, oh my God, look at that. This is crazy good. I'm not sure I'm really allowed it. Whoa, this is mega. Let's try and get back to a video. Slowing down, not needing to do, not needing to be anything, still noticing the desires of your ego, oh, I wish I got more YouTube views, oh, I wish I made more money, but also just like, everything's fine. you know, everything's exactly as it should be. I'm not currently making enough money to survive, but with my savings, and the fact that not today Satan will be that next month, you know, I'm confident and feel very relaxed and grateful around the fact that I earn enough money to survive, and that is fine. So yeah, there's a big, big detachment today from this. old Tom that just used to, had to do, do, do, do, work, work, work. And noticing in that is more welcoming of silence. I'm definitely, I mean, I am listening to a lot of YouTube, don't get me wrong, but it doesn't have to be on all the time. I just love this country so much. It's just phenomenal. You know, starting my days in silence, responding to comments, I used to have a YouTube video on when I did that, but, you know, that's, it's just such a less pull to it now. What I have done a lot of the last couple of days is yank my worm. So today I'm fairly determined to not do that. I was chatting to Jeruon about celibacy, and I was like, yeah, I've been celibate twice, once for 11 months and once for six months, and now I'm basic, oh no, I did have that hole. went through the situation. I'm basically celibate now. And he's like, yeah, but were you jerking off? And I was like, oh God, yeah, eight times a day. And he was like, you weren't celibate. So that's coming through, you know, actually dedicating myself to celibacy, and I'm about to go and live in a forest. So that feels like the ideal opportunity, but then I'm also like, oh, I really, when I go to a forest, I really want to get stoned again. and getting stone just makes me tug my worm, I just cannot possibly not do it. So, you know, when I go to a forest, do I really want to get stoned? Or do I actually want to do the opposite and fast and really dedicate myself to whatever is happening here? Some sort of slowing down, some sort of transformation, some sort of ability to just be. Big love. Okay, let's go get some scram diddlies. So we're going back to that restaurant point that I showed you the other day, and we'll try one of the other restaurants. So we're gonna see how the flag man were, how we stopped the traffic to let out the driver. Love it. Never seen that before. anywhere but in Bali. I don't think I saw it in Jukatar, but I only spent two days there and didn't leave a 1,000 metre stretch. Oh, I'm so ready to eat some amazing valley's food. So the Junction today doesn't have any police officers. Sometimes it has police officers, sometimes it doesn't. I don't know if it's based on a time of day or if it's all just a bit random. Everything seems a bit random out here, but it works, it works so well. I still haven't seen one crash or, woo, there was one almost, one crash or incident whilst walking around or driving around in Bali. I don't know how it works, but it does. It really does work. So I think live and let live rather than health and safety and safe and effective is the way forward. Okay, so that one looks closed. So today we'll try this one with a green sign. I don't know, maybe I'll just, yeah, we're not doing that one for obvious reasons. It's got loud music on, fuck that, we're going back to the same place as yesterday, doing exactly what I said, I wouldn't do. Hello, I'm back again. Good, yeah, I really like your place. Can I get the menu? Yes. Thank you so much. With nut glue, only in Indonesia, the color of water, a black. Oh! And then inside, a small ginspoon. Sounds amazing, I'll try that with rice. Yeah, thank you. Thank you very much. From England. But I don't live there anymore. England, very bad. Really bad. So now I live around the world. But Bali is my favorite. Honestly, I do 45 countries so far, and Bali the best. Okay, thank you. Love it. But it is very hot, like you say. I'm from Jakarta. Ah. The situation of, like, Bali is very hot, Jakarta, medium. 56, temperature only, Bali, 40. Oh, it's less hot in Jakarta. I think it's very hot, because I thought it was very hot, and I thought it was very hot because it was all concrete, so it still felt very hot to me. Yes. But I didn't really like Jakarta, to be honest. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, just city. I don't like any city. Yes. So how long you live in Bali for? Already two years. Yeah? Yes, already two years. And then I have to give small businesses. Great, well done. So you happier in Bali and Jakarta? Yes, but because my family is still in Jakarta. Right. Maybe three, three months, one time, I'm back to Japan. Yeah. Like then, six months. They are very different places. Yes, Chicago and Bali. Yes, and nature. Yeah, and nature. Yeah, I love it, I love it. Like, yeah, because I'm living, I'm from Jakarta, Bali, are quiet. Yes, and nature. Yeah, I love it. Try to your island? I'll show my mom. Not yet, no. I will one day, but I came to Uber and I'd been traveling a lot. I'd done like eight countries, like bam, bam, bam, bam, bam. So I just wanted to chill. I wanted to join a gym. I wanted to live a normal life. So I just stayed only Uber. I did one, maybe two days in Kuta? Kuta. Yes, probably awesome. I didn't really like. I don't know, like, Vietnam, San, probably. Yeah, yeah, exactly, it was, it was still like a city. It's very, very quiet, it's very, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't like, I hope. And then I got to Uber and thought, oh, I'll do five days here, and now I just stay two months. I love it. The seven minutes, the people, the nature. Perfect. Kintamani Batur. I don't know what that is. The Kitamani Batur, Montaim, near wood. Oh, yeah. 26 kilo, around, and then you can do it on. Yeah, yeah, it got a mood circle. Cool, Chetuitary. Yeah. Like, Batur, Mokai, Kamaan. I love it. I just love it. Thank you. Oh, so this is from Java, this is traditional Java food. And Jakarta's in Java, yeah? Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so that's on the main island, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, great. It's good to try all the different foods, thank you. That's a better example of what it is, you can actually see it, so we'll try it first, and then we'll probably add a bit of it, oh shit, there was some. We'll probably add a bit of chili, but this chili is very hot, as I found out yesterday. Wow, it is really good. I like the Java food. Mmm, wow, that's even better than what I had yesterday, that's really good. Thank you. It's like the gravy kind of taste? Uh, soup inside with map raw. Right. maybe other countries have chestnut, and Indonesia have that. Oh, it's like a nut? Uh, nah. Right, wow. Sometimes you have chestnut. Yeah, yeah. We have croc nut for you. Oh, great. Well, I like cook not a lot. Amazing. So, this is the nuts, the nuts for that I'm eating. Very interesting. Thank you, man. It's good to learn all this stuff. And yes, we have added some chili to the mix. like chili, the devil chili, yeah, it's so hard. I like hot food, but... Yeah, this is very, really chili, because it's very, very... Yeah, so could you eat one of those? Could you go... Yes, if you like it, you could? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Yes, sometimes mix with noodles, noodle, or... or maybe something like this, something. Yeah, so with this I can put some in my food and I can enjoy it, but it makes me burp. And sweat. Yes. But I think it's very good for you, yes? Yeah. Yeah, I like it. I like spicy food, but I don't like sweating. Yes. Indonesia. Why is that? Why do people like spicy? Because you'd think that really, in cold countries people eat spicy food, and in hot countries, no, but... Maybe, pastime, maybe, maybe, have hierarchy, Indonesian people like this, and then my father, my father, my son, my husband, my husband, my husband, my husband, or... Yeah, it's in your blood. Because, this is inside... very good vitamin, yeah, very good vitamin, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, if you're pretty good, water coming, and then like spa. Ah, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, my food, sorry you know, like spa, very good, I understand, thank you. This is my first time in Bali, I live in Thailand for one year. and I've seen Vietnam and Cambodia, but first time in Bali. I don't know why, I don't know why I waited so long, it's so good. Yeah, I'm so impressed, I'm so impressed. So, Mr. But, in Bahrainian, experience, wild culture. So much culture. I just think it's wonderful. I really do. Yeah, we love football in England. You play football? No. In England, all the men are stupid. So they care more about football than what's happening in the country, because what's happening in the country is very bad. We have a very evil government, really bad things are happening. and they care more about Manchester United than what's happening, yeah, it's very sad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Big football culture, for sure. Oh, yeah. I don't like people. Well, I love people, like, I love this. I love meeting people, but I don't really enjoy, I don't really need friends. I like... meeting someone and then moving on, you know, and the interaction, but this, there's not many people that I enjoy being friends with. Like, I find most people short-term, very interesting, but long-term, very boring. So yeah, I just go around the world on my own. So that was amazing, but I am really feeling the effect of the old devil chili. If you can see that, you know, I am sweating, I'm gonna need to go and have a shower and a whole costume change after that, but it was very much worth it. Thank you for your wonderful Java food. I will be back tomorrow, no doubt. Suksuma, yes, I do know that, I will start trying to use it. So, your dishes, are they from all different places in Indonesia or from Java or? My food, overall, Japan. Because that's where you're from. That makes sense, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, cool, great. I think we're going to ditch the whole lots of restaurants, even though I do want to try more restaurants, and basically just try a thing on this menu, because it's fantastic. Try to mix it up a bit from the content point of view. I think it's better to go to different places. But it's really good there, and I really like her. That cost 60,000, so 2 pounds 50. Just fantastic. Toby, what you got? What you go? What are you chewing on, eh? What are you chewing on? Oh, you've got a chew! Oh, no wonder you look so happy, happy, happy Toby! Yeah, very good, thanks to you. Good. Did you, you've sorted that? Yeah, already. Thank you so much. I need a new, I haven't had a towel for two weeks. It's a bit smelly. Huh? My towel hasn't been changed for two weeks. Already, not yet. Actually, we have two, okay, I will change. Thank you, brother. I forgot, I know, I know. Actually, I have two, uh, brown color. Brown is perfect for me because I'm a mucky boy. No, brown. What's color that? Gray. Grey, I have two grey. Perfect. Ah, I thought that's already changed, but not yet, huh? Yeah, yeah, thank you. I'm not allowed white towels, because I got one a bit dirty, didn'ta? Yeah. He's banned me from white towels. No problem, Bubba, it's all funny to me, all good. I'm telling me honest, and it was quite bad, I got a big shit stripe, literally shit stripe, down one of the towels, because... So the other thing got to take me this toilet, but it is, give me toilet all. So obviously I use the amazing, just the best thing ever, which we really should have in the UK, to get the old shitty shitty out of the house, and then I dray it. So now I've nixed a towel from the gym to dry my house on, but I was drying it on what was a white towel originally, and it turned out I had to clean my housebook there, and we've got the big shit striped out with it, so it's insane, They banned me from white towels. This place, I'm not sure about that one, because that one's more communal, but that one costs $600 a night, 500 pounds a night. And next to it, which I'm going to do a whole video on, because I spoke to the owner, and he's a really good guy, and I want to talk about it. But next to it, they're not only building something, but they're constantly burning. Can you imagine spending 500 pounds a night and having a building site next year that's constantly burning shit? Needless to say, I'd be going out of my fucking mind, I'd be like a box of fucking mad frogs. See, what I was trying to say there was as mad as a box of frogs. I am. Sailboarders make it see this. I really enjoy the first two of the day, and then from there on, it's just a house to them. Obviously, I've always got to coffee to get with my wish. They do get really well together, but it's just like, it just tastes crap. And I'm not even on the Indonesian tobacco yet. What I'm doing at the moment is the bottom third is Indonesian, and the top two thirds is that really nice Mexican tobacco. I think I've got one pack left of the Mexican tobacco. Then I'll just be smoking the Indonesian tobacco or are within in it, because it is rank. Oh, just a little bit ooh, a little bit more Everybody loves a night time driving shot right Well, I hope so because otherwise these videos are really gonna piss you on So yes, I'm on my way to boxing But don't worry, I won't be showing you any of my limp-visted gay flappy boxing any shots I take will be a sexy Indonesian man who can actually box And then I think tonight will be Burger Night, we'll see how we feel after boxing. But yeah, had a good day, just on another live for first time in a few days, enjoyed that, considering doing another one after boxing as well. I've managed to hook up to my stream yard again, so it was because I wasn't clicking a button gave them permission to join my YouTube account, but I couldn't use it. So that was all very retarded, so Streamyard is back in action, so I'm thinking maybe I'll do another live later and show some post on X and ooh, get back to the old days, how exciting! Anyway, let's go and do some boxing! This guy just fully reversed into that block card, luckily it's just a plastic one, but it's quite a nice car by Indonesian... Cars, whoa, he reverses way too fast, man. Especially after you just hit something. Shame I didn't get it, man, it was quite a thud. It would have been great content. And when I say he reversed into it, I mean, like, fully, very fast, reversed into it. Like, it fully, like, he couldn't reverse into it anymore, he didn't just touch it. He, like, reversed right into it, and it was what made his car stop, and it was a rate thud. Ha ha, ha! It was a good one. Every time I go to a gym, which is every day, I'm like, why am I doing it on this road again? What is wrong with me? Oh, look at this. And then every time I leave the gym, I always, because I come back down a different road, and I always forget to note the shop that's at the bottom of the road, so I can start going up that road, every time. And every time I end up with a situation like this. What a retard! Anyway, that wasn't as bad as it usually is when there's two cars on this road. I think that's a one point where, oh my god, there's three cars. I've never experienced this for four cars. Okay, that hell. Oh my god. Can we get round a couple? Oh, what a nightmare. Can I get round on the left then? It's very hard with one hand. I reckon I can do it. This guy just closes it up. It's all over. It's close before it moves. Alrighty! Giggitty woo, Clevo! New buzz and oh, that's just moved as well, it's all opened up, I think that was the last car. So I think we should be good. Oh, bloody hell, now is one coming towards me. Uh, oh, there's a little gap there for me to sneak into, if it stops. There we go. Sorry, mate, cheers, pal. Pearl! This is way busy than normal. I'm going to have to pull in here. It has to be the last time I take this road. I am determined to acknowledge which road I come down this time. I'm going to start using that one because it's an actual copper road. Oh my god, there's another apartment. I don't believe this. This isn't too. Yeah, I'm not waiting. He can wait. No, it looks like I am waiting. He won. Hey, how's it going? Wheel of Farley! Uber! Thank you, brother. for a chuck. I love my likes on that. Oops, sorry, he was determined. That is alright, Bobby Dazzler, isn't it? I think that might be a bin lobby. I'm pretty sure I've seen these things collecting rubbish. Imagine if I've been lobbies look like that. How much more vibrant and interesting is life out here, which is represented by the bin chuk. I always like to get the secure to me because they're usually very friendly. Good day, sir! Love them, we got the salute today. So when I'm not with camera, I always give them a salute, so some of them have started to bring it back. You recognize me and gave me the salute. I love it. I'm a Barbie girl in a Barbie world. Have you ever seen, have you ever seen a pink scooter before? Let's alone too, right next to some right piece here, like this is... People with money live here. Yeah, you don't see many piddly little scooters like I drive. They're all proper bikes. Ooh, look at one, like a fucking dirt bike. Whoa, what's that one? A gold one! Whoa, look at a color of that! Never seen a bike like that before. Like I say, this is where the people with money live. I just come and use the gym. One day. Hey, how are you? Good, I'm you. Very…