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¿Mamá y Gothica? Expectativas y Realidades desde mi personal Experiencia by @airintsukihana on 3Speak
Hola a todos, bienvenidos, sean nuevamente a mi canal El día de hoy, les traigo un video un poco personal donde les hablo sobre mis expectativas y experiencia siendo una persona que se define como ...
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Hello, how are you guys, and welcome to my channel, the day of today with a theme a little more personal, that I talk directly, and of which I wanted to talk about, because this is something that's a lot of something, and it's a lot of, maybe, taboo, and that have to be very much with stereotypes and critches and things like, but that really has a trans-fond of a reality a little more different, and is that Gautica and Mama, I mean, so, compagina, it's, I have to part to me myself, I have to be gothic to be a mother, I have to be a mother to be gothic. What about that? It's a tantam about, I, I was reflecting a lot since the initial of my embarazzo, and of which I wanted to talk to, for don't, maybe, a granite arena, or maybe my experience in this aspect, but now, maybe not my experience as mom, but, if my experience in... passing for this, analyzing it, seeing what are my plans now, and all of that, this, this situation, not was planned for more at the final of the day, it's something that, also, sometimes, you know, sometimes, you know, I'm to change, I have to encasar in a mold, but at the time, but I'm going to put to put to me myself. And so, and also, and it's a question of, of, some critics that can receive, because this type, are, like, two spectros, totally separate, that is, and we're going to be exactly that, of how is being a mom, and gothic, and what are the expectations, and my analysis about it. So, well, we're going to be the primary and the principal, that's the mom and that to be gothic, or gothic, in this case, be, to be, more about about, about clichés and concept basic. Ser mom, according what you that always is there to be there to support, that basically is very rosy and romanticized, is the base of all, is pure love, it's And if we associate with the gothic, clichet, that the people think, we don't we have like to go very in got, right? Because you think in gothic, you think that person, me too, that tanica that's all the time of black, when, when I'm not being gothic, it's like, to find the beauty in the obscurity, in the melancholia, in tockes of terror, in, let's see, mom, it's like, the sun, illuminated, and, but... Sometimes we forget that in the night, there's light, the luna is a mother, and the luna is a mother, a level of, say, of, say, in many cultures, it's like a mother. So, so, so, if, if, can, that coincide in these two concepts of mother and gothic, if it is possible. a person that one no one, no one thinks, and when one thinks, hey, how, how will be, my time, I tell, I have to be what I'm like, and I'm, and then, and there is when one enter in the part of the man of the ser, and what is, let's, let's, say, what is, what is, is one, at the hour to enter to another new step. So, talking about you concretely, of what is her mom, and that, apart of all, I mentioned, that, one has to be like, so, has to be an educator, has to be amorous, responsible, a to make this, this little retoio, that capulito. And it's something very beautiful, is something very good. And, so, can go to the hand with sarahoticos. Let's an example, Lily Monster or Morticia, she, a Because one thing not separate the other thing, because, really, ser gothic, not is to be like, so, so can, compagena, as, as I said before, we're going to take it, like, in the night. In the night, one can't find a covice, refuge, refuge, peace. Serious, something like, like, the moon, like the night, in that aspect. I don't see, me explain, so, so, more than I, I'm Because one begins to say, I have to have to be I, I have to find me myself, or to express me, because now I have to be a personage to what I'm, that is what I'm expected that is, and this is something that is something that is something that's what I am to do to do this, because it's what is what is expected of me. That is one of the fears that one of the other things, like, and says, how I'm going to do. In special, because one says, I'm saying, I'm so different to what is, the idea general, how I'm going to I'm going to be a burgonsar, because I'm so, not going to care that I'm going to look for the college. So, are many questions that one's a level of expectations. And, after a lot of analysis, me did you know, that are a little irrational, those fears and those things. Because, two things. Your son, you know, to love how you are, or your daughter, to love much as you are. No, no, what you say, if you are, if you are a good mother, no less that your daughter is, or an idioto, an idiot, or an idiotata, that some are, they are, some, they're not, they're not, they're an idiotic, or an idiot, that some, they're not, they're, some, they're This is something that can happen, but obviant of that, you, say, you, say, you're really a person that listen, a mother, a man, that, uh, that, uh, he does, uh, he does, uh, he does, uh, you're a refuge, you port is irresponsible, all those things, no, I think there's no problem. and so, and honestly, even, even they just even they like, even if they're not even though, because that is also, that's something that, if it's a lot, and so, but some of the fears that one of those fears that one have, but the love, the love is inconditional. So, really, this type of meadows are a little, a little absurd when you put a And it was one of the things that I was thinking, say, hey, he's going to be overgonsar to me, and I have to change, and I have this and that there, but, okay, what I'm of what I am, not only for being gothic, but in general, my person, being mom, means I have to modify and change and be now a personage that's, that's Because there are many expectations, and one, in part, want, to, you know, let's, you know, this is a new, and not depend only of you, because now depends, you know, it's, it's for another, for a personita new, a personita, a personita, and generate their personality, and for much that one would want to be able to share one, to share many things, you know, you can't impose to them what you are, you You have to do this, like I, tat, tat, tat, because they are they are themselves. You what they give are the tools, for that they grow. We'll, this is like the education laika. So, you do you do you do the tools and they can't, I can't be more obscure than a carbon. But if they want to be religious, then... You did the tools and you just the things, and you're what they're doing, as well, so, after much, now, after much reflexion, and so, I get to the conclusion, that, neta -mence, if there are things that I'm going to have to modify, or adapt to a little more, but, neta-mendently, no, I don't, I mean, so, there are things that I'm going to change, because there's personality peculiar, being gothic, and this, I don't have to have to be gothic. There are many examples, like, Catbone, no-se -ke, that's a tattoo dothara, a lot of gothic, and has a family, so, which is a great, and her son, and some other examples, like in the cinematography, that are many examples of that one necessarily, you can't necessarily exclude the other, you can be a mom very agree, and to have your style personal, of vestiment, of music, and what you want, even simon simon, like, even version of a man, for example, the cantator of Ramstein, this, that you look, you all in the scene, but has his daughter, and he's an excellent, papa. So, you know, one thing not quitted the other, and really, one has to perfor-perse -one-one-missom-missom-missom, because it's entering a new tap. The question is to equilibrium both things. There are moments in those that you have to adaptart. For example, maybe I can't use Sanko, because I can't get with the baby, not so, some things that one does, right? There are some accessories that, because you can't use because they can't make to the box, or, or me those put to lastime, like this, or, etc. There are sites to those that you can't be able to be with the same liberty. There are changes. There's always going to be changes, and that's Not necessarily, I need to change. This is also that also, I also learned in my mom, because my mom is a person who is a very rebel and she, and she, me, she, I'm going to have to change, I. I am I, you know, I'm going to stop me to stay, but I'm not going to be No, it has to be to be in the way, something that sometimes, because of sometimes you absorb the life. And that can happen, even if you're even if you're not even if I'm not even if I'm not even if I'm just a lot, that's always that's like to open a little bit too. I mean, it's like in the presuppost, you always need to get a little, because you also are important. and that's another of the things that I learned, that I said my mom, you know, so you have to do it, so you have to have a way for you, because you, to be your, being a woman, be what you are, it's the equal to important, to be momas, be a worker, or be what is, what you are. No, we have to look the equilibrium between all those things, and not to let's get to get to get, for not going to receive critiques, for not, for care, complacent. I don't know, I'm a person that's a person that I'm really, because I've been criticized many times because I'm different, no me important. In this case, I, in this case, I'm important, because it's someone that me important, how it's me did a bullying for being different. So, the kids are garrains of anything, of your parents, of your brothers, of what that. And, lamental the one has to protect them of that. But, you know, also, you have to demonstrate that one is not bad. And that you, too, are pro, a and basically, you're saying, a lesson of diversity. The thing is to not get to any type of extremes. There are changes necessary, and there are things to preserve. So, Mama and Gautica, totally. In the time, when I have some time when I have some experience in this, of being Mama Gautica, but, but for now, Mama and Gautica, totally. And the same, but for now, Mama and Gautica, totally. And the that now me have to be different, that, no, I know what I'm, no, I know, I've seen exactly like, I mean, I've seen, and I've seen, and I've seen, that, even, even, even, you know, that's just, you know, it's a question of, to, you know, it's a question of, to, you know, it's a question of, to, you know, for them, but at the moment, is what you say, oh, yeah, I want to put this pyramitiaeus, and it's a but not do you, let them, they discover themselves, and so, and so, and that's, I think, in any, not only one that is different and peculiar, not is the typical, but I think it also, also, also apply, in general, let them do, let us beer, don't impongas your things, uh, appellos, and give them the and see, conscientious, does a list, etc, I mean, basically is that, I think I don't have more anything to say in this theme. The reflection is a bit, not, not so, I don't know, so, maybe, proff, I see is profound, but it's like, it's like, it's like, parasota, I think, you know, with the minutes that I've chowl, yeah, yeah, yeah, you see. And then, I mean, I think I apply in any other case, in any other than, I'm gothic, totally. We'll go to the hand some concerts, probably. Probably. He would like my style? That's but I'll be. We'll see how I'm going to go. I don't want to turn my closet, not going to throw my clothes, I'm going to continue being I. I'm going to do it my waykito in, both in my life and my presuppost. I'm I have to have to do all for this new person human, not means, it means that I'm going to say my mom, I don't have to change, I don't have to, I don't have to, I don't have to, I don't, I don't want to, to, let me stop, and live, for the expectations of the other, and the cliches that the people want to for one. It's more than most to demonstrate, and there are many cases, and cases like the to demonstrate that one thing not has to be with another and that those cliches of obscurity, really no, there are much more in the night, that's all the darkness, and the light of the Luna, and the mother-luna also, they're really, so, so, if, if it's Um, and one of the, for some of the, for sure, what I've mentioned, the theme of the top, I mean, me, me, my Ropa, Lola, my Ropatica and, still go ahead and doing it, there's, if you put to, for example, even actresses, uh, artists, and that type of people, no, they'd be able to do that, so, again, the fact of that you're not, that's not, a level of image, a level of what it's, or simply, you know, they not to feel like, right? But if you still, they're still, they're getting well, because, no, right? Yeah, question of medir, sitios, tal and what, question of, that, of, that question of, that, that not is that you're going to be able to be able to be able to be a because that would be a couple of complicacy, that, like, that the momas use in a scot, like, and a fowlda mini-paya, to look, I'm talking about about moms more typical. This, I think, the limits, the limits are in all the way. But, well, basically, that's what I want to say. I think, that with that, so, yeah, that's covered all this thing, and, well, what, what you think, what you think? believe in this new new, you know, what is your experience? Tell me in commentaries. Bye-bye.
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