Thank God for what Brother Eli said and what the Bible said in 1Peter 3:7. Husbands and wives, in the context of the Christian faith are to dwell together in unity, resolving every quarrel. With love, there shouldn't be any unresolved quarrel. In Malachi 2:16, the Bible says:
For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
God's standard is that husband and wife lives together in peace.
God bless you.